All of us want to be financially successful but many of us have psychological blocks or limiting habits and behaviours that can limit our desire to get there.
Here are 7 tips for financial success:
- It’s A Life Style
I don’t know anyone who became rich without working hard for it. Those who have a strong focus and work ethic tend to be more financially secure. As well, those that take (measured) risks rather than settling for what they can get by on tend to be much further ahead. A 40-hour work week can be a springboard to taking one’s income to the next level – look for ways you can add value to your organization and do more than is expected – people tend to notice (not to mention the good karma points you earn!) and opportunities seem to ‘magically’ come to those that put this into action. Example: My husband was surprised and pleased to have his organization offer to sponsor his Master’s degree (which built his skills and confidence and resulted in a nice pay raise) as a result of his great attitude and willingness to work on his own time. (He created a process to save the company money, without cutting people’s jobs or spending any extra) – and the decision makers noticed and rewarded him accordingly. - Say “no” when people make unreasonable requests
How many people have stories about the time they “had” to lend their sister money, or the time they were “forced” to host an expensive dinner for their family because it was expected? Generosity can be a good thing, but only when exercised with foresight and in keeping with your own financial well-being. It is ok to say, “No” when you are confronted with an unreasonable request, especially when it comes to money. Get in the habit of finding other ways to express love and commitment to friends and family members, rather than spending. ie. Potlucks, outdoor activities, supportive phone calls, hand-written notes, cute emails, etc.
- Check the Price Tag
People who are successful financially are generally in the habit of looking at how much things cost and even have policies NOT to spend unless they can get a deal. They spend very consciously, and they would probably hesitate to spend $600 on designer brand stuff (Unless they got the items on sale at an already discounted outlet store, they didn’t have other versions of those items already, and the plan is to have the items last for a significant period of time). It’s not being cheap, it’s being smart. - Don’t buy on credit if you can’t pay in full
People who are financially successful don’t pay for things on credit if they can’t afford to pay cash on the spot. Purchase on credit only when you will not carry a balance. Many credit cards offer great rewards and points that can be used for travel, car rentals, hotels, and other merchandise, but don’t let the rewards tempt you to overspend and carry a balance, or it will far outweigh any of the benefits.
- Track expenses and create a realistic budget
Do you have a monthly budget? Do you find your budget and actual spending don’t line up? Maybe your budget isn’t realistic and the extra stress and guilt about not sticking to it are just making matters worse. Track your expenses by saving all of your receipts for a month. Then look at your spending habits and create a reasonable and sustainable budget that is realistic for you. - Give Back
Volunteer, support your favourite cause, or offer to help others when they need some guidance. You can give in many ways, including with your skills, your time, your stuff that you don’t need anymore, as well as with your cash. Again, opportunities and money seem to come to those who live with a generosity of spirit. Be a part of both give and take. You never know when your support will come full circle and be there when you need a boost. - Save and Invest on a regular basis
Think about what you want to have in 5 to 10 years down the road. Invest for both safety and high returns (yes, these opportunities do exist, although odds are your bank or financial advisor will disagree) and get your money working for you. Accumulate money for things you want to buy and have a designated amount of savings set aside for those unexpected expenses.
Any other tips to share?
Disclaimer: This blog should be used for informational purposes only and should not replace the advice of a licensed financial professional.
Posted by jaynsteele 

Sonja has a PhD in Positive Psychology and has written the first book based on the results of her empirical investigations on the “Science of Happiness”. She is a research scientist, not a clinician, life coach or self-help guru and her research studies have revealed how people can practically achieve a greater sense of happiness in their lives. She cites numerous studies to support her claims, conclusions and recommendations, and the book written in language that is friendly, conversational and practical.