Review: The 4 Hour Workweek

September 1, 2010

As many of you faithful readers know, I’m a big believer in creating passive income in order to free up time to have more choices in life – to work because you love it, rather than to just make ends meet. When I first heard about the “4 Hour Workweek – Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich” I knew I had to read it – the only thing standing in my way was having to study for and then pass an Exempt Market Products exam in order to keep up with changes in the private investments industry in Canada – very interesting stuff, by the way, the course content is focused on the intricacies of hedge funds, flow through shares, limited partnerships, real estate investment trusts and principal protected notes (look for more blogs on these topics this Fall!) But I digress – having passed my exam I proceeded to devour this book in less than one week, and am already inspired to implement many of the very practical suggestions he offers.

The book begins with Ferriss recounting his personal experience that I could relate firsthand to – after graduating from university, he took a soul-destroying sales job at a high-tech firm, realized that working forty hours a week for ‘the man’ wasn’t for him, and went on to create a business of his own, where he worked eighty hours a week instead. And although the pay was good when he was self-employed, he was caught in the same trap as before, just with a more ruthless boss (ie. His own self-imposed limits and beliefs).

He then started to think and question the status quo, and proceeded to create his own paradigm of living based on his values and goals with enough income to support them through minimal effort. The book reminded me of the principals introduced by Robert Kiyosaki (author of “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”) where he espouses the value of buying assets that create positive passive income ie. Having your money work for you, rather than working for every dollar earned. The big difference is that Tim is candid and transparent in the practical steps of how to achieve this, using actual examples that he has tried in his own life.

He has created a refreshingly transparent guide to achieving the lifestyle you’ve always wanted but wouldn’t admit to, in a series of steps based on the underlying assumption: “Reality is negotiable – outside of science and law, all rules can be bent or broken”. He also names the outsources, services and brokers he’s used successfully to create and maintain his automatic income-producing machine, while he tangos his way around South America or practices kick boxing in Japan, enjoying his life to the fullest.

Tim aptly point out – “The opposite of happiness isn’t sadness. It’s boredom”. He espouses that the pursuit of happiness is the pursuit of excitement – and that when you can precisely define what motivates you, then you can create a system to take care of yourself and your commitments in order to live the lifestyle that really feeds your soul. Here’s how it works:

The “DEAL

Definition – Figure out what you want, get over your fears (with some practical suggestions as to how to do this), see past society’s expectations and figure out what it will actually cost to get where you want to be. It can be surprisingly inexpensive, costing far less than what you may be paying now for a relatively ‘ho-hum’ kind of existence.

Elimination – This is about time management, or better yet, NOT managing time. Ferriss talks about applying the Pareto Principle, better known as the 80/20 rule, to focus only on those tasks that contribute the maximum benefit. This can be applied to all aspects of life to eliminate the small majority of habits that waste 80% of your time. Forget about getting more done in less time – instead, eliminate those tasks that can be ignored, delegated or outsourced.

Automation – Here he is talking about building sustainable, automatic income sources. This section is all about effective business management and is reminiscent of Robert Kiyosaki’s explanation of the difference between being ‘Self Employed” ie. running a business, to being a “Business Owner” ie. Taking oneself out of the business to run itself. Ferriss had made that mistake once, where he generated lots of money each month, but was chained to the machine to keep it working. Instead, he now has hundreds of people working on his behalf through multiple outsourced vendors, all operating under specific instructions designed to keep him headache free, while depositing cheques in his account each month. Very pragmatic; he also provides lots of real world examples and resource listings; a mini-book in itself on how to define and operate a profitable business.

Liberation – Once you’ve automated your lifestyle, liberate yourself from your geographical location and your job. He also helpfully reverses the order of (E) and (L), suggesting that employees Liberate their time spent at work first (and gives some very follow-able suggestions as to HOW to get your boss to agree to this) so they can get more done in considerably less time or to practice geographical arbitrage to take mini-retirements in countries with favourable exchange rates. With extra time and mobility comes the ability to leverage economic advantages around the world. Living in Bali in a 5 star resort can be much cheaper than keeping up with the rent and heating bills in the wintertime in downtown Vancouver.

Ferriss calls practitioners of DEAL or DELA the “New Rich” (or NR), and practitioners of the more traditional “work really hard, save up and then retire” approach as “Deferrers” (D). The key ingredients of the NR lifestyle are: Time, Income and Mobility.

I also love that Ferriss notes there will be a lot of soul searching before you really get settled in a lifestyle like this. His method of resolving those big life questions, which tend to generate a lot of stress just because they’re poorly worded, is this:

  1. Ask your self if you have decided on a single meaning for each term in the question. (ie. Is this (action, decision) what I really want?
  2. Ask yourself if an answer to this question can be acted on to improve things. Ie. If the answer is ‘yes’, what will I do to make it happen?

If the answer to either question is NO, then forget about it.

He offers a goldmine of tips and suggestions that can be extracted and used to optimize your life. Here are a few:

  • Ask yourself, “If this is the only thing I accomplish today, will I be satisfied with my day?”
  • Why it’s more productive to carry around a written to-do list than to keep one on your computer
  • If you can’t define it or act upon it, forget about it
  • How to be more efficient with e-mail
  • The value of a virtual assistant and how to hire the right one
  • How to reduce clutter from your life
  • Learn the art of non-finishing – just because you spend $20 to eat at a buffet, doesn’t mean you have to eat to constipation-causing discomfort just to get your money’s worth – this is also knows as the “sunk cost fallacy”
  • Life exists to be enjoyed – the most important thing is to feel good about yourself

The 4-Hour Workweek is a great book and most if not all readers who have even a sliver of the entrepreneurial spirit within will enjoy it and be able to take some of Ferriss’ suggestions and put them to practical use. Here’s his website – http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/

Timothy Ferriss also has an interesting blog full of tips like how to tie the perfect tie, how to check e-mail twice a day, and how to travel the world with ten pounds or less.

Let us know what you think by posting a comment on our blog!


Book Review: The How of Happiness

May 3, 2010
“All of us want to be happy, even if we don’t admit it openly or choose to cloak our desire in different words. Whether our dreams are about professional success, spiritual fulfillment, a sense of connection, a purpose in life, or love and sex, we covet those things because ultimately we believe that they will make us happier. Yet few of us truly appreciate just how much we can improve our happiness or know precisely how to go about doing it. To step back and consider your deep-seated assumptions about how to become a happier person and whether it’s even possible for you – what I hope this book will spur you to do – is to understand that becoming happier is realizable, that it’s in your power, and that it’s one of the most vital and momentous things that you can do for yourself and for those around you.” – Foreword from the author – The How of Happiness – Sonja Lyubomirsky

My dear friend and Professional Coach Signy Wilson recently highly recommended “The How of Happiness” by Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky to me and I am so grateful she did, as this book is the best one I have read on the subject, both in terms of readability and in terms of its clear instructions for pragmatic action.

Sonja has a PhD in Positive Psychology and has written the first book based on the results of her empirical investigations on the “Science of Happiness”. She is a research scientist, not a clinician, life coach or self-help guru and her research studies have revealed how people can practically achieve a greater sense of happiness in their lives. She cites numerous studies to support her claims, conclusions and recommendations, and the book written in language that is friendly, conversational and practical.

Dr. Lyubomirsky’s overarching conclusion is that each of us has a genetic happiness “set point” we are born with (akin to a body weight set point) that determines 50% of our happiness quotient – some people are naturally more happy and optimistic, and others less so. 10% of our happiness quotient is situational or circumstantial, such as our age, race, wealth, living situation, job, attractiveness, health and so on. The remaining 40% is up to us to actively control, and it is this 40% that Sonja focuses the main content of her book on. She has also included a self-assessment test to determine where we are currently on the happiness scale, what kinds of happiness-creating activities are best suited to our individual make-up, motivations and preferences, and how to go about putting these activities into action.

In Part One of the book, the reader is invited to take another assessment to determine the types of activities that are the most gratifying fit for him/her on the road to increasing happiness. Sonja’s studies have shown that there are 12 areas that can be actively engaged in to produce measurable results, as follows:
1. Expressing Gratitude
2. Cultivating Optimism
3. Avoiding Over-thinking
4. Practicing Acts of Kindness
5. Nurturing Social Relationships
6. Developing Strategies for Coping
7. Learning to Forgive
8. Increasing Flow Experiences (*”flow” is defined as activities where you are so involved you lose track of time ie. Reading, painting, running, etc.)
9. Savouring Life’s Joys
10. Committing to Your Goals
11. Practicing Religion and Spirituality
12. Taking Care of Your Body (Meditation)
12a. Taking Care of Your Body (Physical Activity)
12b. Taking Care of Your Body (Acting Like a Happy Person)

After completing the person-activity fit diagnostic, which takes only a few minutes and is easily scored, you identify the four categories of activities that represent your top interests. There are sections in Part 2 that are devoted to activities that fall into each of the 12 categories of activity covered by the diagnostic assessment where you can pick the specific activities in which you want to engage. This is the “How” part of creating happiness, which is often sorely lacking in other self-help books on the subject.

When I did the diagnostic I was happily surprised to see how closely the results represent the kinds of things I already like to do and gave me great practical ideas on how I could take those activities to the “next level” – my top two areas were “Practicing Acts of Kindness” and “Increasing Flow Activities”, followed by “Practicing Spirituality” and “Taking Care of My Body”. I found I was easily able to be more involved in what I was doing in these areas already, as well as pick new activities in which to engage.

What is also very positive is the author’s emphasis on NOT overwhelming us with too many happiness activities. The recommendation is to pick no more than three of the four areas identified by the diagnostic – alternatively, it can be only one activity. Lyubomirsky makes doing happiness activities very manageable as well as fun.

Sonja also outlines and debunks, again, based in science, some popular “Happiness Myths”. Her findings and both empowering and reassuring.

Myth #1 – Happiness must be “Found”. This implies that happiness is some elusive thing that must be discovered outside of us somehow. To understand that 40% of our happiness is determined by intentional activity is to appreciate the promise of the great impact that you can make on your own life through intentional strategies that you can implement to remake yourself as a happier person.

Myth #2 – Happiness lies in changing our circumstances. This kind of thinking is “I would be happy IF ____________” or “I will be happy WHEN _________” (insert “I lose 20 pounds” or “I become financially independent” or “I meet the love of my life” etc.)  As only 10% of our happiness is ground in our circumstances, even when we do achieve these types of goals, while it may make us happy temporarily, science shows that the happiness is not as great, nor does it have as lasting an effect as the other types of activities the author outlines in the book. **I can certainly concur with this on a personal anecdotal level – in 2009 I achieved two goals I thought would make me very happy – losing weight and becoming financially independent. Of course, achieving these goals did feel great, but about week or so later the “happiness high” wore off and just became the regular “status quo”. This is due to our ability as humans to adapt to our circumstances, both positive and negative. (Which isn’t to say we shouldn’t pursue these types of goals, but rather to have realistic expectations of their time-limited results on our overall happiness level). My personal ‘take-away’ from this learning was to continuously strive to achieve additional meaningful goals, as well as make sure I am doing the other happiness-enhancing activities that came up on my list as well…and so far, so good!

Myth #3 – You either have it [happiness] or you don’t. The notion that we are stuck with our genetic programming to be either happy or unhappy is being proven by a growing body of research to be untrue – we can overcome our genetic programming by the action we take!

And the best news of all? I found this book on sale at Chapters, in the Bargain Section for just over $6.00 – well worth every penny spent and the time invested to read and put the suggestions into action. Although I’m an advocate of using the library wherever possible, given that there are several self-assessment activities and areas to measure one’s progressive happiness quotient (and depression quotient) over time, getting one’s own personal copy may be a good plan.

Let us know what you think! What happiness activities are working for you?


Book Review: Rich Dad Guide to Investing

April 1, 2010

This month’s financial book review is on Rich Dad’s Guide To Investing: What The Rich Invest In, That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not. To first understand the context, this book is the third in Kiyosaki’s personal money trilogy. The first book is Rich Dad, Poor Dad and the second is Cashflow Quadrant.

To sum up, Rich Dad, Poor Dad was self-published in 1997 as a memoir-style finance novel about a boy growing up with two mentors – his biological father ie. Poor Dad and his friend Mike’s father ie. Rich Dad. Poor Dad had a PhD and believed that the key to wealth was doing well at school and getting a higher education, which would lead to a good job as a well-paid employee. He believed that owning a home was one’s greatest asset, and that if you were loyal and worked hard then the company you worked for and/or the government would look after you in retirement. Rich Dad had a grade 8 education, and he believed that a residential home belonged in the liability column, not the asset column of a net worth statement. He also believed money should work hard for you rather than you trading your time for money. He taught Kiyosaki that building financial literacy, creating businesses, and investing the business income into passive and portfolio income were the keys to building wealth. Robert shares his struggles with the two competing paradigms as he applied them to his life. This book went on to become a New York Times best-seller and one of the most widely-read personal finance books of all time.

Cashflow Quadrant builds on the concepts presented in Rich Dad, Poor Dad, and outlines in detail the four ‘income quadrants’ available to us. 1) Employee and 2) Self-Employed represented the Left Side of the quadrant, and were the paths that 90% of the population who control 10% of the world’s wealth were trained for in school and ultimately chose as their path to income creation. These paths represent (perceived) Security. Quadrant 3) Business Owner and 4) Investor represent the Right Side of the quadrant, and are where the remaining 10% of the population that control 90% of the world’s wealth choose to focus. He states that the Quadrant 3) and 4) mindset and skill sets are not taught in school and that these paths represent Freedom. A very interesting read that continues to challenge the status quo, while also providing some good examples of how one can move from one quadrant to another and learn the business and investing skills of quadrants 3 and 4, while maintaining the security of quadrants 1 and 2.

Okay, onto Rich Dad’s Guide to Investing! The story begins with Kiyosaki as a young military pilot returning to his home in Hawaii from service in Vietnam to find his Poor Dad, having fallen out of favor in his cushy government job, recently unemployed. At age 52, Poor Dad is now looking for work and just starting to rebuild his financial life. Rich Dad has been building up his business assets through passive and portfolio income and is incredibly wealthy.

Having followed the more traditional Poor Dad path until this point, Kiyosaki feels he is at a crossroads and seriously contemplates what he wants from life. He decides he will become rich and that he will not re-enlist in the military. Rich Dad agrees to resume his role as Kiyosaki’s financial mentor.

As in Rich Dad, Poor Dad, and Cashflow Quadrant, Kiyosaki’s writing is very personal, simple and easy to follow (if somewhat repetitive in places). I enjoyed all three of his books for this reason – many personal finance books are dry, jargon and acronym heavy, and often seem to require a base financial or investing knowledge that most everyday people don’t have, in order to understand the concepts. Reading this book is very empowering, as we realize that all of us have the power to become rich, if we take the action to follow his suggestions and use the tools suggested.

As Robert ponders which quadrant he should focus on in order to become rich, Rich Dad bluntly tells Robert “You don’t have the expertise that employers are willing to pay the big money for, so you won’t make enough money like this to invest with. Besides, you’re sloppy, you get bored easily, you have a short attention span, you tend to argue and you don’t follow instructions well. Your chances of success as an Employee are low. Regarding becoming Self-Employed that’s not a good fit either – this is for smart people, including those that become lawyers, doctors and accountants. You’re bright, but not that smart and you were never much for school. That leaves the Business Owner quadrant. This is perfect for you. Since you lack any special talent or expertise, your chances for attaining great wealth will be here.” We are being told here that if Kiyosaki can do this, any of us can.

This book is full of some great observations, good common sense advice, and excellent insight into wealth building. The best advice Kiyosaki gives in the book is the importance of creating and following a financial plan, (although he doesn’t expand much on HOW to build one and recommends finding a good financial advisor/planner). Kiyosaki says you should make 3 plans and follow each one until you have reached your goal – 1) a plan to be financially secure 2) a plan to be financially comfortable, and 3) a plan to be rich.

Kiyosaki writes: “There is nothing more high risk than a person who does not have those two basic plans [one for becoming financially secure and one for becoming financially comfortable], and who is focused only on becoming rich. While a few make it, most don’t…”

Kiyosaki says that many people are so concerned with security and perceived risk that they never have a plan to build financial comfort, let alone significant wealth. People don’t stick to boring, but workable, plans. People want riches fast without investing any time and effort to building their skills or increasing their financial literacy. Kiyosaki advises setting realistic goals based upon your level of financial knowledge. Then, as you gain experience, add more ambitious financial goals.

The crux of his advice about investing and creating passive income streams revolves around creating a business that earns income, and then using that income to buy assets that create both passive and portfolio income. Kiyosaki writes: “In order to be a good investor, you first need to be good at business.” So, Kiyosaki recommends starting a part-time business. Even if your part-time business doesn’t make you rich, you will learn much about business, and those lessons will be valuable. Why study business? Kiyosaki points out that “roughly 80% of the very rich became rich through building a business.”

The other reason he advocates learning about business is because essentially all investments are investments in businesses, whether they are start up, spin off, publicly traded or privately held. Once you fully understand the components of what makes a business successful, you will be better equipped to make wise investments based on your critical assessment of how others are running their businesses that they are seeking your capital to support. This knowledge is what mitigates your risk, increases your control and results in building your wealth. You will also able to create investments/businesses that other people will want to buy. He devotes several chapters to the necessary components of how to build a solid business, and does a good job of describing the structure needed.

What I liked as well were his descriptions of the different types of investors, and he devotes a chapter to outlining how one can become that type. They are:

The Accredited Investor def. One that has over $1Million in net worth. This is the minimum net threshold to invest in many private companies in the US, as per the Securities Exchange Commission (SEC). (Note: In Canada, one needs a minimum of $1Million in net worth, OR have earnings of at least $200K per year per year, or $300K with a spouse to be considered an Accredited Investor. However, different provinces have different rules about whether one must be Accredited to participate in private investments). Many Accredited Investors, while they may have money, have zero knowledge about investing or are financially illiterate, often having earned their money as an employee or self-employed professional.

The Qualified Investordef. One that has money available to invest and has some knowledge about investing. With regard to the stock market, a Qualified Investor would know how to read and interpret financial statements, as well as know the difference between technical and fundamental investing. The difference between an average investor who lives in fear of the stock market crashing, is that a Qualified Investor has the skills to profit whether the market goes up or down.

The Sophisticated Investordef. The Sophisticated Investor knows as much as the Qualified Investor, and has also studied the advantages available through the legal system. S/he has familiarity with tax law, corporate law and securities law and is then able to use the advantages of E-T-C: Entity (business structure), Timing (knowing when and how to pay, defer or avoid taxes) and Characteristic (knowing which of the 3 types of income – earned, passive or portfolio – make the most sense given the Entity and the Timing). Usually the poor and middle class focus on earned income, whereas the rich focus on passive and portfolio income. A Sophisticated Investor has learned how to turn earned income into passive or portfolio income.

The Inside Investordef. One that is on the inside of the investment and has some degree of management control. The book was written for people who want to be investors on the inside rather than the outside – and the most important distinction is that you don’t need a lot of income or net worth to be an inside investor – legally. The SEC defines an “insider” as anyone who has information about a company that has not been made publicly available. Kiyosaki’s use of the word “insider” defines investors who have management control over the operations of a business, as they have control over the direction of the company. In addition to building a business of your own, you can become an inside investor through buying a controlling interest in an existing company, be it public traded or privately owned.

The Ultimate Investordef. Is a person such as Bill Gates or Warren Buffet, who builds companies that other investors want to invest in and take the companies public. While is not likely that many investors will ever build a Microsoft or a Berkshire Hathaway, we all have the possibility of building a smaller business and becoming wealthy by selling it (or parts of it) privately or publicly.

I found the definitions and explanations of what it takes to become each type of investor interesting, especially as it underscores that there are many paths to wealth, depending on one’s interests, skills and abilities. There is also an interesting chart that highlights the difference in knowledge and perception of risk from the perspective of an “average investor” vs. a “sophisticated investor” on page 217 – what is low risk to most average investors ie. Having a secure job, diversifying, avoiding making mistakes, only relying on one’s own knowledge and experience, expecting good financial advice to be free, trusting others to make financial decisions for them etc., would be considered high risk for a sophisticated investor.

A better title for this book might have been Rich Dad’s Guide To Entrepreneurship and Investing, because of the solid discussion on building a business. Kiyosaki says to be successful in business, you should learn: communication skills, leadership, team-building skills, tax laws, corporate law, and securities law. He also emphasizes the importance of a solid mission that the company must be working toward that reaches beyond simply making the owner(s) rich. He suggests learning to read financial statements. Most crucial is overcoming fear of failure and learning sales skills. Public speaking is important, because to lead you must be able to speak effectively. Kiyosaki says he wasn’t a natural speaker, but because he was committed to working on his plan to be rich as an Inside Investor, he worked on his speaking skills. He writes, “Successful people find their weaknesses and make them strengths.”

In a nutshell, this book is another Kiyosaki great read! He continues to buck the status quo, and encourages people to adopt common sense, creativity and collaboration in the name of taking more control over their financial intelligence and literacy. The language is frank, easy-to-understand and simple to follow. He is a big believer in experiential education (ie. Learning by doing, or taking action) and working with others as mentors, which I personally agree with as one of the best ways to learn.

As well, its important to be aware that while Robert Kiyosaki has written some great books and provided well-meaning resources and companies designed to help people build their financial literacy, some affiliates and others licensing the Rich Dad name have caused some negative controversy as of late. There is also some skepticism and criticism regarding the authenticity of his Rich Dad and whether the writing is fictional or not. As with anything, it’s important to employ some skepticism and critical thinking when it comes to following ANY advice or direction from others – and Kiyosaki himself states this over and over again in his book(s). However, do be cautious when considering attending any “How to Get Rich” seminars which post ads that you may see around your town or in the newspaper – to see a recent Marketplace critique and expose, please click here.

In conclusion, the most important lesson discussed in this book for those that are starting out – is the importance of creating a solid, sober financial plan for each ‘level’ of your financial life and to follow that plan – as Kiyosaki states, first we need a plan to create security. Only then can we create a plan to be comfortable. Finally, and if we are willing to continue the hard work necessary, we then create and follow the plan to be rich. There are no shortcuts, and all levels require perseverance, hard work and a commitment to following the plans. (Stay tuned – Share the Wealth is increasing our capacity to provide you with more financial planning resources this summer).

And if you haven’t already played Kiyosaki’s famous Cashflow game, this may be a great start to or continuation of your experiential financial education. It is like “Monopoly on steroids” and very useful in learning to create a basic financial statement, recognizing good and not-so-good deals, creating joint ventures with others, and creating passive income streams. It also helps to shift one’s mindset from a Quadrant 1 and 2 mindset to the Quadrant 3 and 4 mindset.

You can play the game online for free, but this does require registering your name and email online (which means you will get emails advertising fee-based seminars and “Rich Dad Coaching”) – just something to be aware of ahead of time.

You can purchase the game yourself through the Rich Dad Store for $195.00 or you can often find them as low as $75.00 (plus taxes and shipping) on either Amazon or EBay, but as an owner of these games myself, I think the best (and most frugal!) way to learn is by joining in with other like minded people at CashFlow meet-ups and clubs happening around the continent. They are often free or have a nominal drop-in fee (usually to cover the cost of renting a room). Check here to find a registered Rich Dad club in your area.

There are also other informal groups that meet regularly to play the game – google “Cashflow Game and (your town/city)” to find one. For anyone living in the Victoria area, we’d love to play the game with you! We are happy to host up to 6 players in our home near UVIC on the first Wednesday of each month – email us if you’re interested at info@sharethewealth.ca. The next 101 game will be Wednesday, April 7th at 6:00pm (the game takes about 3 hours to play) – please give us at least 24 hours notice. As well, depending on interest, we can host the more advanced 202 game as well – let us know and we’ll schedule a time to play!

Thanks for reading and we welcome your comments!


Review of “The Millionaire Women Next Door” by Thomas J. Stanley

March 1, 2010

“Unmarried”…”Unattractive”…”Unwanted”…”Business Owners”…”Married to their business”…”Revenge-seeking workaholics”…

These are stereotypes of North American millionaire business-women – an unfortunate double standard, and not very appealing. But not so fast – in his book “Millionaire Women Next Door”, Thomas J. Stanley refutes these stereotypes based on a comprehensive study conducted in May 2001. From a random sample of 2500 millionaire women, 439 participated and answered questions on financial risk taking, leadership, budgeting, happiness and satisfaction, investment habits, academic achievements, goals, planning habits, income-allocation patterns, and eleemosynary habits and attitudes. And his findings are encouraging and more achievable than one might think.

The general success formula comes back to:

1. Having the desire to be wealthy
2. Not equating spending with happiness
3. Having the discipline to save/invest diligently
4. Taking personal responsibility for managing money
5. Expressing care and concern for others
6. Doing what is genuinely enjoyable

Here are some statistics about the average millionaire woman in North America:

1. She usually rises before 6:00am and retires around 10:30pm
2. She often works forty-nine hours a week
3. She typically exercises for about three hours thirty minutes per week
4. On average, she earns 71 percent of her households’ income and the household net worth is approximately $2.9 million
5. She has a 95 percent chance of being married
6. Although she most likely never attended a private school, she probably does have a college education
7. Most likely owns her own home

In his book, Stanley defines an “Under Accumulator of Wealth” (UAW) as someone who has a low net worth compared to her annual income. According to Stanley, an individual would be considered a UAW if her net worth is less than the product of her age and one tenth of her realized pre-tax income. For example, if we consider a 38 year old surgeon earning $200,000.00 per year, then $20,000 x 38 = $760,000. A net worth of less than $760,000 by that age would be considered a UAW. The lifestyle of a UAW is based on consumption of income rather than saving and investing.

On the other hand, a “Prodigious Accumulator of Wealth” (PAW) usually accumulates well over the product of the individual’s age and one tenth of her realized pre-tax income, and either are, or become, millionaires (or multi-millionaires) in their lifetimes.

The main reason why UAWs have debt is due to the fact that they often spend tomorrow’s cash today, whereas PAWs have the common belief in saving or investing today’s cash for tomorrow. UAWs often believe that money is one of the most renewable resources, leading them into consumption of expensive and excess items, allowing them to temporarily live a life of luxury and style, with no security and limited choices later in life.

The millionaires profiled in Stanley’s book did not live extravagant lifestyles. Rather, these millionaires spent little on cars, watches, suits, restaurant dining and other luxury items. The reason why these women managed to become millionaires is because they were able to live below their means. Women who have actual wealth and a high net worth are referred to as ‘Balance Sheet Affluent’, while women who have a high income but low net-worth are referred to as ‘Income Affluent.’

So, according to Stanley’s data and findings, how can you become a Millionaire (Woman) Next Door?

Spend less than you earn. If you constantly spend more than you earn, you will never be able to increase your net worth, no matter how high your salary is.

Avoid purchasing status objects. When you purchase imported vehicles, you will be lead to constantly want the latest model. This turns into a never-ending cycle and you are left with depreciating assets.

Invest for high returns. You can never go wrong when you invest your money for a great return. Many wealthy people do not put money in the stock market, but rather invest in private businesses or joint venture projects.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I appreciated the evidence presented by Stanley that most millionaires don’t ‘look like’ the stereotypical image many of us have of millionaires: People with flashy cars, brand name clothes, big houses and extravagant lifestyles. Instead, most millionaires look pretty average on the outside, and exhibit characteristics of persistence, frugality, humility, discipline and are dedicated to enjoying a meaningful life. Relationships, charity, integrity, and a high valuation of freedom, independence and hard work were also consistent attributes that Stanley’s study subjects shared as well. Stanley’s findings are consistent with my own experience. One of my early jobs was as a teller in a downtown Vancouver bank. I clearly recall that the best dressed and “flashy” customers were usually the ones with the lowest bank balances and the maxed out credit cards.

My only negative critique of Stanley’s book is the focus on net worth, without a discussion of the importance of positive cash flow. In my opinion, having a million dollars in net worth (a “mercantilist” definition of wealth) and being financially independent can be quite different.

The main complaint that I have with the high net worth definition of wealth, is that one also has to have money to live on. If one has to start spending one’s assets in order to live – by selling the real estate, spending the capital gains earned in the stock market, and draining the bank account, etc. then inevitably, net worth disappears.

I prefer R.Buckminster Fuller’s definition of wealth and “financial independence”, which is the amount of time you can survive without having to work. It makes more sense to me to focus on accumulating assets that also produce immediate positive cash flow, thus freeing up my time and creating more options for a satisfying quality of life, which is what motivates most people to become millionaires in the first place. Positive cash flow, like it sounds, creates continuous streams of monthly, quarterly or annual income that carries on indefinitely, regardless of whether we choose to work or not.

While Stanley’s book “The Millionaire Woman Next Door” provides terrific examples of the mind set, characteristics, habits and goals of those who are able to produce and save/invest considerably more than they spend, that is only one side of the coin. Next month, I’ll be writing a review of Robert Kiyosaki’s book “Guide to Investing” which outlines ways to create those passive income streams and develop a savvy investor mindset that embraces both net worth and cash flow. As always, we welcome your comments, stories and suggestions and thanks for reading!

Disclaimer: This blog should be used for informational purposes only and should not replace the advice of a licensed financial professional.


Monthly Book Review: “The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me for Women About Life and Wealth” by Richard Evans

February 1, 2010

The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me for Women about Life and Wealth

This book was written by Richard Paul Evans, a #1 New York Times best-selling author, and is based on a true story of the five lessons his real-life millionaire mentor, Mr. Kerry Heinz, taught him when he was 12 years old. He also states in the introduction that he believes that most get-rich books are written to make the author rich. As Evans didn’t want readers to think that about his book, he is donating all of his royalties to help abused children.

Here are the five lessons from the book that I believe I was supposed to share with you this month:

  1. Decide to be wealthy
  2. Take responsibility for your money
  3. Keep a portion of everything you earn
  4. Win in the margins
  5. Give back

For this newsletter, the focus is on the first lesson – Deciding to be wealthy.

Women have an extraordinarily hard time with this one especially, yet it is the #1 most important commitment of the five that we must make to ourselves if that is the result we truly want. So many times I see my women friends and clients practice all the other lessons listed above with mastery – they are frugal, self aware, good savers, don’t spend on foolish things, creative in their ability to make something out of nothing, give selflessly to others – but when it comes to expecting compensation – good compensation – for the work they have done and the value they’ve created? Something happens… Richard Evans articulated this point so well, the best justice I can do his book is to share his words with you and encourage you to read the book yourself:

Excerpt From Lesson One: Decide to be Wealthy

Who wants to be a millionaire?

“Women have been so brainwashed by the destructive female culture that taught them to associate money with sin, evil and everything crude, that it would take an entire book to disentangle the subconscious fears and incredible fantasies that the simple noun “money” evokes in most women”. – Betty Lehan Harraghan –

I’ve seen it far too many times to deny it – the collective discomfort that falls over a crowd of women when I tell them to “decide to be wealthy.” This shouldn’t surprise anyone. The feelings women hold about money are remarkably complex and sometimes not even understood by the women who hold them.

Traditionally men and women have had different relationships with money. While women usually labor under society’s crushing expectations of physical appearance, men’s feelings of self-worth are more likely tied to their bank accounts. Men are not only encouraged to pursue wealth but are pressured to do so. Women are usually taught the opposite.

This lack of female emphasis on money, combined with complex and often contradictory beliefs about wealth, leads to a general paralysis on the financial front. And those who fail to act, fail. As Lois Frankel wrote “If you’re like most women, you don’t ‘think’ rich – and if you don’t think rich, you certainly don’t consciously engage in behaviors that will contribute to getting rich.”

“I don’t know much about being a millionaire but I’ll bet I’d be darling at it”. – Dorothy Parker –

Even today, women are still more likely than men to be taught that their roles have less to do with money than with relationships. I, for one, applaud this teaching – for men as well as women. Life isn’t about money. It’s about God. It’s about love. It’s about family and relationships. It’s about personal evolution, learning and growth. And anyone who tells you otherwise is probably trying to sell you something. I can’t think of any more sure method of creating an unhappy and unfulfilled life than to devote it to the primary purpose of money.

However, the pursuit of financial power to secure and enhance life’s true needs is not only appropriate, but wise. For those who do not accept responsibility for financial matters, life is thrown out of balance. As a dentist friend once told me: “Those who don’t think about their teeth are those who later in life spend the most time thinking about them.” It’s no different with money. It’s not surprising, then, that the people I know who are the most obsessed with money are not the millionaires or even the billionaires. Rather, they are often times the ones who are living paycheque to paycheque. To the financially enslaved, life becomes all about money. It’s not.

In order to be truly happy, we must live balanced lives. To be in great fiscal health is very much like being in great physical health; it allows you to do more and be more, and it permits you to live your life free of constant pain and bondage. - End excerpt – pg. 11 – 13

What a great reminder and lesson. For more information about Richard Paul Evans, and more insight into the lessons of this book, please visit www.thefivelessons.com Enjoy!!!


Monthly Financial Product Review: Three Jars

January 1, 2010

About three weeks ago, Your Money Radio hosted an interview with Anton Simunovic, a Connecticut-based father and businessman who created an innovative way to teach kids how to manage their money. Essentially, it’s a cross between traditional piggy banks and online banking, but with some great added features and benefits, that parents and kids can collaboratively use to deposit, allocate, and manage allowance money. It sounded interesting and as they offer a complimentary two-week trial period, my son and I signed up for it and let me tell you, we are LOVING this product!

Although I have worked with my son AJ (now age 11) for years to teach him sound money management skills (he had been using three actual piggy banks, each labeled ‘Share, Spend, and Save’) this system definitely had limits. It didn’t really make money management fun (which it should be), it was hard to know how much was in there, and to be honest, the piggy banks all too often got lost in the other toys or (ahem) had laundry piled on them (boys will be boys). These were all manageable limitations, but my biggest struggle with the piggy bank system was more serious.

The Problem: Although embarrassing to admit, I would sometimes 1) forget about allowance day and not have the cash on-hand to give him. Or, 2) if I did have the cash, I would not always have the right denominations so he could split it up and divide it appropriately between the three piggy banks. I would then tell him I’d get to it later or tomorrow, or I’d negotiate with him to credit it to the next week. As far as teaching sound money habits went, my behaviour was setting a very poor example, as I was neither treating him, nor his allowance, with the respect they both deserve. Can you imagine a business partner or an employer blowing you off like that? Not cool…but quite common, I suspect, in many households…

The “Three Jars” solution: A set amount (that you choose) is virtually ‘deposited’ into your child’s “Three Jars” in whatever proportion you agree to be in Savings, Spending and Sharing each week, bi-weekly or whatever your allowance arrangement is. The child also gets familiar with the concept of on-line banking and you don’t have to remember to have small amounts of cash each week.

I still maintain control by holding the actual cash, while Three Jars automatically keeps track of how much is owed, what has been paid, how savings are growing and where spending is going. AJ learns to manage his own online account, but my approval is required for all financial decisions. He can boost his savings by earning interest from me in ‘parent bonds’ (I love that feature!), rewarding him for delaying gratification and setting the investing habit up at an early age. He spends his money by requesting it from me online (via email, which I check several times daily, so I can’t miss it or forget) and it can be redeemed via cash or gift cards they can order online (and my credit card is charged – but only with my approval). They can also share money too, by making donations to charities of their choice online (my credit card is charged after I approve it and I am sent a receipt for tax purposes) or off the site. Finally, the site also allows for chores or projects to be added for extra income (or as a condition of allowance, however it works for you and your family). *As a complement to this system, we also went to Coast Capital Savings and opened a joint account – there are no banking fees, and it also gives me the option to write him cheques for his spending/sharing money as well when he requests it, which he can then deposit in a ‘real bank’ and then use his debit card to make shopping purchases. This system is helping him get savvy with managing his money in a real world way, that is both conscious and responsible, which I believe is the end goal.

In conclusion, Three Jars is proving to be a great money management tool for us! Consider the free trial at www.threejars.com (its very easy to unsubscribe if its not for you) or click here for Anton’s 5 allowance tips.

Disclaimer: This blog should be used for informational purposes only and should not replace the advice of a licensed financial professional.


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